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My boyfriend got another girl pregnant and I’m not sure I can cope with him having a love child

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She told him she got pregnant on the pill, which I think is a lot of cod wallop. I have tried to encourage him to stay with this woman soley because of this pregnancy, but he wants me and wants to marry me as he said all along, and he is furious with this woman for keeping the baby after only knowing each other two minutes. He told me he will obviously be paying for it but wants nothing to do with her OR the baby.

Dude, get away from this guy pronto! He sounds like bad news. Regardless of whether or not he wants to stay with this women he impregnanted, do NOT stay with him yourself! Sue Jones April 9, , am. He sounds a bit flakey.

I assume from the debate that this has become a fact that was inferred due to the women being on birth control. Exactly; he sounds like a total loser, and how the hell would she ever be able to trust him going forward?

Plenty of fish in the sea, as they say. Leroy April 9, , am. Violet April 9, , pm. Leroy April 10, , am. Amanda April 9, , am. LW, your BF impregnates another woman AND you think that you are entitled to an opinion about whether she should keep her unborn child? That is really fucked up. Your boyfriend is a scumbag and you should probably not have anything to do with him. You should be furious with him and dump his ass!

BTW, has he heard about condoms?? Just a suggestion for your scumbag boyfriend. ColorsOfTheWind April 9, , am. The entire letter reeked of entitlement. Unfortunately, your boyfriend may have gotten another woman pregnant. That is not her fault. The last time I checked it took more than one person to make a baby. What you would do in her situation is irrelevant. It upsets me how much anger seems to be directed towards this unborn child.

But then again the child might be better off without such an jerk as a role model. As far as your relationship with him. Then, again you seem a tad immature so maybe you deserve each other.

I agree with all of this. And to the LW — your boyfriend is not the victim in all of this. Muffy April 9, , am. Solomon April 10, , pm. Exactly where is there a grown-up here? Because you sound about So what? No loss there.

Ugh so agree with Amanda. Why does anyone think they have a say in whether a woman aborts or keeps her child? Get your hands off my uterus! James Felix April 10, , pm.

You pack of hypocrites. The man should have no say on whether or not she keeps the baby but she should have a LOT of say over his finances for the next 18 years. Flexxie February 6, , pm. Simalar to me.. Oh thank you thank you thank you!

I wanted to punch my computer screen while reading this and was so afraid the comments would not say what you are saying. Vathena April 9, , am. CG April 9, , am. Remember that episode when Rachel told Ross she was pregnant and he freaked out because they used condoms? Good times. And is this letter for real?

My Spidey sense is tingling that this could be a fake. Rachelgrace53 April 10, , pm. He chose to not wear a condom and now he has to be responsible for his choice. This baby will need a dad, not just a check, and if he can walk away from this child he can walk away from you just as easily.

This man seems to be both irresponsible and immature so be glad you can move on and not be stuck with him. SpaceySteph April 9, , am. So much that he demanded his interim girlfriend get an abortion. He should get a damn vasectomy. Brad April 9, , pm. He ought to get a vesectomy since this guy is obviously carrying the manchild gene. No reason to pass that one along to future generations…. Brad April 10, , pm. And there are many things that can happen that make it even less effective, like forgetting a pill, taking antibiotics, etc.

It takes two people to make a baby and two people to decide what to do after one of them gets pregnant. If it is his child, he owes the child at least something. He did help create it.

Can I just say that would bother me a lot. So while you were on a break he had unprotected sex with just her or other people too? That fact just rubs me the wrong way. Both parties should be concerned about birth control. It seems like you would be even more concerned about this when sleeping with someone you are non-monogamous with.

Anna April 9, , pm. So true. My sister has 3 birth control babies. But condoms should still be used unless the relationship is established and monogamous and both parties are disease-free.

Come on! Three babies? All magically on the pill? What the fuck ever. Gwen April 11, , pm. It happens, some people are incredibly fertile. I know one 40yr old lady who got pregnant after having her tubes tied. JK April 10, , am. Yammy April 9, , am. LW, this guy sounds like a scumbag. He was clearly having unprotected sex with at least one other person. I know you two were on a break but I hope you made him get swabbed for STDs. He was there just as much as that woman was. And he took on the consequences.

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I went storming off back home and he thought we were over, so decided he might as well go out with his mates. He met up with this girl in the pub. We both know her. She told me about it three weeks ago.

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I had been dating my boyfriend Rob for about a week when he made this pronouncement. Rob has never been anything other than totally upfront about his life. He is divorced, he is a dad to an autistic son, he survived a heart attack, and he is in a seven-year polyamorous relationship with his girlfriend. The guy was supposed to be my rebound, not my polyamorous boyfriend. I met him just a week after having my heart broken by my last boyfriend. I just wanted to hook up, play the field, something that I a serial monogamist have never done before.

Cheating boyfriend got another woman pregnant

The year-old, from Barnsley, was horrified when she was messaged on Facebook just weeks after giving birth - and told Hayden had been having sex with another woman while she was in labour. And that wasn't all, the cheating salesman had got two other women pregnant during their relationship. Hayden and me got together when I was just He was sweet and charming, he bowled me over straight away. It wasn't long before we moved in together. Hayden worked long hours as a salesman, while I stayed home supporting him. I know it was old fashioned but it suited us.

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Monday, October 02, My boyfriend and I have been together for three years now. During the relationship he has cheated on me more than twice, and he fathered a child with his ex on one of those occasions. His behaviour has led to several break-ups between us. We are currently back together because I love him and he is trying to prove that he loves me too.

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